Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh

[ZmeFly]

DAMNIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i just typed a hella messages about my shyte and i get a message in the end that says to many smilies grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

well ill make it short and sweet, my girl is getting pissed because i wont another Z and i think she doesnt or she thinks ill go off to california and get ripped and be stuck

there isnt much else i like

i have another car but i cant have the fun car for me.

she bitches about what i spend for or what i do to get a car, but by the same token it was ok to spend 300 bills on her for valentines day. gee guess what i got?? a card and a small box of chocolates:disappoin

i was even told that tonight mind you and i quote "i hoped you get stuck there and cant get back" :tapemouth

we have 5 years together but its getting tiring anymore, i used to love being by myself and doing what i wanted. eh relationships are shyte sometimes im telling you.

i dont know what to do. just venting. thanks for putting up with me.

i think im going to california and getting a Z and going back to baltimore. single free to do what i want and leading my own life without excess baggage. besides the Z just doesnt need it

hell what would you do.

im outta here thanks for your space time and hell if you read this thanks for puttin up with my dementia

[zachb55]

I may be young and unexperienced in relationships, but i have come to the conclusion that my car doesnt b!tch at me for what i do, even when i mess up big, i just know "hey i screwed up now i gotta fix it" and theres nothin beyond that. my car makes me happier then women do because i dont have to talk to it on the phone for hours and then pay the bill when it comes... i would do what makes ya happy, but dont go and do something you'll regret over a car well i would still get the car of course though:classic:

-Zach

[Gav240z]

I ain't no relationship doctor but I know that if my woman was getting in the way of my happiness I'd tell her. I don't think I'd have this same problem however cause my g/f has loved my car since she started going out with me. She knows I'm obsessed with them she knows I always talk about them. So she's accepted that if she's with me she has to put up with it. I can't make her like the 510 I've tried. I can't make her like alot of cars. She does however tell me when she see's a 240z or 280zx or 260z. She's just like that.

I'm still young and I don't live with her so it's a different story. I too understand that being single and all that was great but at the same time you miss out on all the other things women provide. :classic:

Butter her up and grab the Z while she's in a good mood.

[1 Bravo 6]

:love:

My wife I have put up with each other for 36 years.

She has always known that I wanted to restore a classic car, and I knew that I would one day.

Priorities;

Family comes First.

Family comes Second.

Family comes Third.

Everything else comes after.

When we finally settled down after a lifetime in the Army.

When the kids have left home.

When we could afford it,

I GOT MY ZED !!!!!!!!

There seems to be far too much Me, Me, Me, and You, You, You in marriage today. That's ONE reason why so many fail.

Look at everything from the point of view of WE, WE, WE and treat life together as a partnership and the odds of staying together improve immeasureably.

Well, that's my soapbox sermon for the week.

Rick.

[tanny]

Just remember that living with someone in NO WAY prepares you for what or who they turn into after you're married. Everything is wonderful when you're in lust and are not yet bound by the marriage commitment. Familiarity and the golden ring can breed contempt, but on the other hand, some of the possible benefits(kids, good companionship, etc.) can outweigh many of the negatives(not being able to be totally selfish, no free time, being criticised for your many drawbacks, being fiancially sensible). The importance of the car may just be an indication that you still need to get the me, me, me out of your system and aren't ready yet for the us, us, us deal. No shame in that. Have a blast getting the me, me, me out, and then you won't feel so tethered when you do settle down. And if you think one woman is the only one for you, WRONG! There are literally millions you can have a good life with, so don't ever feel pressured to take the jump. Hows that for a bunch of cr_p to solve all your problems? Good luck and try to have as much fun as possible.

[2ManyZs]

The old saying, "Can't live with them, can't live without them." applies to cars as well as the opposing sex.......:cross-eye

[Bambikiller240]

Originally posted by 2ManyZs

The old saying, "Can't live with them, can't live without them." applies to cars as well as the opposing sex.......:cross-eye

Although, with women, sometimes it feels like "Can't live with them, STILL can't live witih them." When speaking of women, there seems to be a VERY few that don't eventually get around to the "game playing" that drives men NUTZ! Now I say that from the stand point of someone who 8 years ago thought he'd finally found a woman who hated the games as much as I did. After 7 years of a great relationship, suddenly those GAMES began to appear out of nowhere (well maybe it was menopause . Within a year, the relationship had to end. I just can't deal with that crap.

Sorry to bore you guys with my opinion on this, but I can relate to ZmeFly's problem here. It is a tough call, but ultimately you have to do what makes YOU happy. No one else can do that for you.

[ZmeFly]

its not the WE dont have a car already, the woman doesnt drive and never has, believe that. she knew from day one when we got together that i loved Z's and nice cars in general

i even told her of my dream garage, 70 240Z, 74 260Z, 78 280Z and a 1983 280ZXT

but with all said and done the money i have saved scrimped and made plus selling a few of my parts is what i made.

it isnt taking from the budget or the us part. on her defense i do have to admit i did have over 9 different Z's in the past 4 years.

so i ca see her point a bit:cheeky: bambi i know exactly what you mean about the switch with marriage. my ex wife was sweeet kind beautiful person.

once we got married though the things i did all the time normally when we were living together all of a sudden changed to where the hell were you tonight. umm well the same place i am every wednesday for the past 3 years ive been living with you.

there are other newer cars i like but the look and the style of the car really isnt there. 240Z by far isnt really that fast but it looks good no matter if its tearing up the road or standing still.

not to many cars that look like that. on the other hand there arent many toys per say i like 87-92 supra turbos, but everyone that has one thinks its worth 8k

the 90-96 300ZX i really like, but my god during maintenance you may have to visit louie two-fingers and his partner lefty. then if the car isnt or hasnt been maintained. you could spend as much bringing it back to life as you did for the car.

95+240SX isnt bad but it has NO power at all and i know dont tell me to buy a SR20det and do a swap would be nice if you want to give me that extra 3500 for a front cut.

forrest said it best "lifes like a box of chocolates, ya never know what your gonna get"

[Datzun76]

In my case my girlfriend just bought another bird for $1000. -African Grey. So now she has 3 different birds. I only have one Z so she is not able to gripe if I get another one.

Guess I am lucky though since she loves Z cars and wants her own 240.

[St.stephen]

I can very well see your points. My previous GF of five years that I thought I was going to marry found any one of my hobbies nothing more than toys and a waste of time. I wasn;t the harvard material neither her or her father wanted however she couldn;t be without me and you want to talk about games....that relationship was like an episode of wheel of fortune. One spin got the big prize, the next.....bankrupt.

I have been with my current GF for over three years and only living with her for about a year. Not only does she embrace my cars, ( I currently have three Z cars) she wants one of her own. I also see about 150 concerts a year, and record about every concert I go to which she happily deals with (I'm the dork standing by the microphone stand in the crowd). Also, I have had a pilots license for almost 10 years.

I couldn't ask for a more understanding GF that is totally cool with what I have going on as long as in between all of those thigns I mentioned I make some time for her and bring her flowers now and again

[bonniec75209]

Have you two kissed and made up yet? Remember, the longer you go mad, the harder it is to make up. Take care, Bonnie

[ZmeFly]

bah i hate relationships sometimes

we are happy again but i still dont have a Z help someone