Carl,
The Sample that I supplied came out of a 1/71 one owner car. I believe it to be an original part.
If you look closely, the repro does have the tucks at the top. It is not sewn all the way up. I think Bryan did an excellent job of copying the pattern. If you look at the pictures in my post, you will see a swatch of the original fabric on it, and next to it. It is pretty darn close in my book. It will never be "exactly the same", unless you got material from the original manfactures stock, and the lot it was cut from. No, there is no grommet, because I never had one on my car to give. I am still looking for 2 of them if you have some lying around, (hint, hint, !). If you are lucky enough to have your original grommet, you can just re-use it. So far we have not found a suitable source for that piece.
Everyone has to make their own decisions on what they will put on their car. For me, I am very satisfied with the outcome on this piece.
My 2 cents.
Marty