I can relate to what's going on.
My head got clobbered when I was about her age, and I spent 4 months in the hospital, with everybody telling me, "You won't be able to do XXXX any more...." I spent 2 years in a wheelchair, and another year learning how to walk really bad; people at work( or just about anywhere) were afraid to have me there, and I ended up losing that job. Also had my fiancee run off because she couldn't handle the pressure of being engaged to a "handicapped guy." People expected her to quit everything to spend every minute helping me work my arm & fingers.
You could say my life had ended or I lost evberything good about myself- talent ,smarts, & athletic ability.
But I still got you Bozos
"equal opprtunity annoyers"
After 15 years, I walk fair, got some control over my arm, but still not my fingers- I get to drive automatics now.
Best wishes from Tomo.