More help than you were worth?! Nah, don't say that...
Here's what you do to crank your engine without injecting fuel, creating spark, or doing anything else except turning the engine: Identify the smallest wire clipped to your starter, and pull it off. One wire of the remote starter will clip there, and the other end will clip to the positive post of your starter. Push the button, and the engine will crank. You don't have to worry about the engine starting or anything.
Specific questions:
1. Leave the plug wires wherever you like. There will be no sparks.
2. The fuel pump won't be pumping. No worries.
3. You might put a brick on the pedal. This is done to allow air to enter the cylinders freely, so that there will be compression. If your mechanic didn't do this, that might explain the low numbers.
Valve adjusting is easier than it sounds. You don't need a torque wrench. Just tighten the jam nuts roughly as tightly as they are when you loosen them. No brass hammer is needed to loosen the valve cover. Just unscrew the screws, and off it should come. Be careful to separate the gasket carefully as you're lifting the cover off. You don't want to tear it. (But if you do, your auto parts store can sell you a replacement.) Oh, and don't use the remote starter to rotate the engine (an exercise in frustration). Instead, use a big wrench on the crank pulley.
Low numbers, if they're that low, would likely be from general engine wear, especially the rings. I'm skeptical of your numbers, though. FAIW, we had a boat with a fairly well worn engine with approximately those compression numbers. The engine ran fine, although I'm sure it ran better when new.
Good luck!