Thanks for all the input it's helping me out and yes I know the relay is bad because I pulled it out uncrimped the shell and pulled it off and a tiny resistor (I think) part of the relay was obviously burned out. I think I'm going to order the be part and if it doesn't work I guess I'll send it back. I really think it's the only thing holding me up because I'm getting power to my injectors but they won't ground out. And I'm just blaming the relay because I don't want to think about getting a new ecu yet