I've never seen a rubber bushing "torn up" from use. They crack, fail, come apart from age, ozone, and oil. What polyurethane bushings give you is more accurate suspension locating under load - the suspension geometry changes less under load as a result of bushing deflection. This is only a concern if you're re driving at 9 or 10/10ths which is nearly impossible on the street if you value your life. OEM style rubber bushings work fine in all cases except for autocross and track use. What a lot of people make the mistake of doing is comparing worn out rubber bushings with new poly bushings and then claiming that poly is so much better. The same false comparisons occur for brakes, engine, transmissions, differentials, seats, etc.