WOW, I started this a long time ago. So I have had this lit laying around for over two years-what have I been doing?
So like I said, I bought a headlight relay kit from Daniel Stern Lighting and just recently ordered some Cibie(spelled it right this time) headlights. I had just pulled my motor to fix an oil leak(another story), and I was looking at that empty engine compartment and thought this would be a great time to do this upgrade.
So I referenced the above web site and found another good one;
http://alteredz.com/Headlight_Relay_pg1.htm
and started to get working on it. Pete's site is the best for telling you exactly the right wires to use and a very simple plan on how to do this.
If I were to recommend anything to the DIY'er, I would get some kind of relays and holders that came with wire leads already attached to the holder. I also didn't care for the headlight sockets supplied with the kit, but just my preference. I ran my wires from the relays all the way to the headlights and eliminated the original sockets, again, just my preference.